Is your child fussing up a storm right now because you told her that she can’t have the one thing that she wants? That sounds about right. And as parents, we need to set limits so we keep telling her no. And that just makes her fuss more so we want to give in so […]
Most parents are wondering what to do when their child is having a tantrum, or what to do when they are hitting. But a lot of parenting challenges can be resolved when everyone is calm. Sometimes we don’t take advantage of this time because we might forget. But even more often, we don’t want […]
Right now, I’m reading No Drama Discipline by Daniel J Seigel and Tina Payne Bryson and I can recommend it for all the parents who have a little bit of free time. For all the parents who don’t have a ton of free time, I will write about some of the most important concepts that […]
For the longest time, I never knew that people actually traveled with young children. In fact, for most of my life, I thought that it was something that everyone avoided. But then I started traveling as a young adult and I saw all of these people traveling with their young children and I started asking […]
We know as adults that bribing doesn’t feel good; it doesn’t feel right. If our boss were to say, “If you’d stay a couple of hours later tonight, I’ll bring you a chocolate cake tomorrow”; we’d probably stay and do the extra work but deep inside we might be thinking, “gosh, I didn’t need him […]
I love reading about new studies and new ideas and this one is one of my favorites because it seems so obvious and yet I had never thought about it. Last fall, the New York Times published an article that I have referred to many times about light and sleep. I read it the night […]
(The most important thing you can do, by the way, is eat a family dinner together). Often my posts are about changes you can make when working with your children to help create a better life for you and them. But today, I’m going to talk a little bit behind the scenes with some “why’s” […]
This is one of those things that just happens. Before we have kids we really want to be the parents that don’t give their child a screen to calm them down or entertain them, and then real life happens and it is a lot harder than we ever thought it would be. But here’s the […]
You want to be more of a positive parent, but you still don’t want your child to get away with everything. So what do you do? Basically, all the same things, just take away the anger. This can really only be a video post since I’m suggesting that you do everything you do as a […]
Here is an info-graphic that you can refer to, or print up which gives a summary of how to work with your child’s behavior. It includes minor transgressions, common behavior issues as well as more major safety issues. Many parents ask, “how can you be a positive parent, while also setting limits?” and this […]