Before I traveled with young kids, I was deathly afraid of traveling with young children and couldn’t understand why anyone would do it.
I remember reading pieces like Don’t bring your child on a plane or Leave your kid at home next time
But another thing stuck with me as well. When I was young, single and traveling the world I would see young happy children living in these amazing places that I was going to. AND I would see families traveling with their little ones!
The two pictures didn’t mesh well in my mind- “don’t travel with kids” and “little kids are experiencing things all over the world”.
So when my boys were born, my husband and I started thinking about how we could travel around the world with our little ones. And I’m so glad we did. Here are 8 reasons why traveling with kids is the best:
1. You don’t always get what you want. Yep, it sounds like a nightmare to most parents (and toddlers) that when you are traveling you don’t always get your way. This can end up in a tantrum. It happens. But when you are home, you have the temptation to give in to your kiddo. When you are traveling, and your child wants a particular snack, a different kind of wipe, a blue cup instead of a yellow cup, they have to learn how to deal with what you have. It can be rough for a short bit, but most kids are fast learners. Once they realize that there is no pizza hut, they get over it. For the first week of traveling with 2 three-year olds, they didn’t eat much because all the food we had was different, but now, they will eat mostly whatever is offered to them.
2. Building awareness. Again, this one has a learning curve and it was something that we started before we traveled and has only grown. I’ve written about mindfulness before and believe that it is a very important topic. It is tempting to find ways to entertain our kids when we travel but one of the huge benefits of traveling is building awareness for our world and seeing all the amazing things out there. Children will be fascinated with what is going on outside the plane, on the road, or next to them on the bus so allow them to just watch and ask questions.
3. Trying new things. We often get into ruts and although routines are a good thing, doing something different is also a good thing. Especially when your kids are young. I found that as an adult with young children, I didn’t always feel like an adult. I felt like my life revolved so much around the young kids that I always ate the same food, I would draw silly pictures and play with blocks on the floor and I just needed something else! When we traveled, I tried new foods (and my kids did too!). I looked for hermit crabs on the beach instead of blocks on the floor. I heard different music and went to new places. It was all very invigorating for me and the children.
4. Letting go of expectations. Have you always made your child wear shoes since you know that they could step on something sharp? Do you stress about how many vegetables your child has eaten in one day? I’ve done all these things and more- until I traveled with my little ones. The one expectation that I haven’t dropped- seat belts.
5. Seeing how differently other cultures raise children. Kids menus don’t exist in many other places in the world (unless they are heavily visited by North Americans). Children climb trees without supervision in some places. My friend in France said that young children went to the bakery by themselves in the morning to get the family baguette. I’m not saying that these things are better or worse, but just observing or even experiencing another way to raise children is such an eye-opening experience.
6. Getting your routine down to a science. I talk about creating a routine all the time. It creates structure and security for a child and improves behavior drastically. Traveling will take your routine to the next level. If you always read two books before bedtime, then you will use that routine to help your child fall asleep in any old place. If you always sing the same song before nap time, then you have that amazing tool to let your child know that it is nap time even though your are 5 hours off from your regular time zone. Having a routine in place allows you to travel with children by changing everything else- except the routine.
7. Not having to worry about school. Once your children are in first grade, it is much much much more difficult to travel. Every school is different, but most schools require attendance and will put you in touch with the truancy officer after missing more than 10 days of school. But this gives you a pretty big window of about 6 years to travel with your little ones.
8. Paring down and traveling light- The first time we traveled with our 1.5 year old twins, we took two carry on bags for two weeks at the beach. Now, most travel sites will recommend planning ahead and making sure that you have everything that you need. Those two sentences may not look synonymous but they are compatible. See, you do need to plan ahead, and you do need to bring everything you need, but when you travel, you really get down to the questions of “what do you really need?” Do you really need that noise maker enough to haul it around? Are toys that important or can your children play with sticks and string? Can you get away with not bringing the special nose cleaner outer or the spoons that your children request everyday? When you travel, you realize what you actually need and what is truly important.
Book your ticket today!
